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To paraphrase a piece of writing that caught my eye on the Internet: "Believe it or not, one of the things I will miss most is not being able to blog any longer. The ability to put my thoughts on (virtual) paper and put them where people can read and respond to them has been marvelous, even if most people who have read my writings haven't agreed with them. If there is any hope for the long term success of democracy, it will be if people agree to listen to and try to understand their . . . opponents rather than simply seeking to crush them."

In Memorium -- "My primary purpose in writing these articles is to help provide gays with a sense of their history outside of Stonewall. I feel we have to grab it wherever we are living it and get it down for the generations that will follow in our footsteps."--Mary Kapsalis.

 

 

Lookin' good!

May 14, 2008 -- Surprise! Surprise! We were supposed to spend the summer going back and forth to and from Fort Lauderdale, but the opportunity to do another theatre season came up and resuming publication of As The Grove Turns seemed appropriate. When the decision was made to suspend the website last September, several features were permanently deleted and it will take some time to put them back. (Photo left: Sayville Ferry Service on the mainland.)

Fort Lauderdale continues to be a great place to be. We moved into larger digs this year and the place feels more and more like home. Although Lauderdale is a city, the lifestyle is informal, the pace is very laid back, the weather is great and the building's aren't so high that you can't see the sky. I find the people very friendly and hospitable. Even supermarket checkers and wait people smile and say hello.

Shopping is also great, restaurants reasonable and there is an abundance of theatre, movies and other cultural events. There's a theory that people who live in a warm year round climate are happier and I do believe it.

 The drive north was long and tiring. There was only one laugh the whole way:  Somewhere in the Carolinas, a rest stop parking sign that read: "Reserved for Hi Cops" was good for a giggle.  (Of course "Hi" was short for "Highway", except to a warped mind). I would have taken a pic, but the trusty camera was on the blink.

We arrived at the Sayville Ferry on the mainland (photo upper right) on a very chilly Friday, May 2. When the boat approached the Grove, it was apparent that a lot of work had been done on the dock structures; the place hadn't looked as good in years. (See lead photo above).

Upper left: Cherry's; Upper right: Island Breeze

Cherry's had a sparkling new red tent over their open air bar (photo above left), Island Breeze looked very inviting (photo above right) and the once-sad-looking Top of the Bay building seemed transformed (by new owner Ron King) into something quite handsome (photo below left).

Upper left: The old Top of the Bay building (I don't know if it's going to be renamed); Upper right: The Belvedere.

The Belvedere also looked great on the approach. A lot of work has been done on the landmark structure (photo above right), which seemed to rise out of the water like a fantastic magical castle, glistening brilliantly in the late afternoon sun (photo above right).

When we got off the boat,  Bob Lerch (Doc Ta House Moving 631 671-9688) helped transport our boxes and bags to "Nacho Men," our home at the corner of Surf and Lewis. Bob complained that the winter had been too mild ("the bay didn't freeze over once"), and noted that at least twenty-one other people had called Cherry Grove their home during the off-season. He also said that members of the younger generation are occupying their homes and rentals a lot earlier than they used to. Although it was very early in the season, practically every business was open and lots of people were here. Bob also runs a winter watchman service to make sure that our houses are okay in our absence. (Bob Lerch Winter Watchman Service 631 671-9688.)

During the last nine years, I have bemoaned the failure of elder sages (?) to landmark Cherry Grove, to insurer that future generations would have the opportunity to visit and learn about our historic past. So many of those who could have contributed their knowledge and memories are gone, as are photos and other memorabilia that could have kept the spirit of early Cherry Grove alive forever. (Photo right: Here comes the boat!)

In the 90's, aggressive moves were made by some individuals and groups to turn Cherry Grove into either a quiet, rustic community with just a grocery store, one bar and a few restaurants; a sleazy rock 'n roll town where anything went; a "family" community with playgrounds and dress codes; a commercial "theme park"; a Las Vegas-type gambler's Mecca; a religious retreat; or (take your pick) either a "For Women Only" or a "For Men Only" ghetto, to name a few. 

The struggle for power peaked and the business community won. A younger generation of young entrepreneurs has finally gotten a foothold in the door and, though it won't be the same place that it could have been, the future looks promising. Some have gone into hock to keep the myth of Cherry Grove alive and deserve our support.

My hope is that this new generation of business owners will understand the principle of cooperation better than in the past. Perhaps it's the short time that a businessperson has to make any money, but there has always been fierce and unfriendly competition between many in the past. If they all get together and agree on a focus that they could all abide by, everyone would do much better and the community itself would flourish, again. Perhaps it's time to revive the Cherry Grove Chamber of Commerce, and get along this time, dammit! The future is in your hands.

Shortly after we arrived, I tried to connect the trusty desktop and discovered that AT & T had erroneously disconnected my Internet service and a call for technical help connected me to some creature across the seas, who jibber jabbered at me for about ten minutes without comprehending my problem. When I asked him to connect me to his supervisor, he informed me that he didn't want to do that and hung up. (Don't get me started!) And they call it "technical support?"

So, after ten days without Internet Access, I subscribed to high speed Internet service provided by the Pines Pantry (631 597-6200). They install a small receiver box on the roof (see photo upper left), which supplies very good high speed Internet access. After years of maddeningly slow dial up, I am very happy. They can provide wireless reception, too.

(Upper left): Cherry Grove Post Office; (Upper right: Jeanne Skinner

There was a time when the first person to open the door for business was Jeanne Skinner at the Cherry Grove Post Office. She is a third generation postmaster here and proud of every one of her ninety-one years on Fire Island. (photos above.)

Island Breeze is open most days for breakfast, lunch and dinner. The bar is a popular place to schmooze at cocktail hour and has been expanded to accommodate the local crowd. This year the kitchen is offering a very extensive continental menu that includes delicious appetizers like to-die-for Seafood Bisque (photo left), Spicy Maryland Crab Cakes and Chipotle Baby Rack Ribs; Lunch offerings include good burgers, honey dipped fried chicken, hot meatloaf sandwiches and a Queen Salad (1/2 lobster stuffed with crab, shrimp and lobster salad served on a bed of fresh fruit.) Dinner includes grilled ribeye, short ribs, stuffed chicken breast, tuna steak, weekend lobster bake and daily specials. A full breakfast menu is served from 6:30 am thru 1 pm; lunch is served from 1-5 pm and dinner from 5-11pm; a late night menu will be served at the bar and will be open every night 'til . . . Entertainment includes David Coss Jazz on Friday nights and singer Bianca Leigh on Sundays from 7-10pm.

Cherry's drew a big weekend crowd (photo right) by offering their customers free VIP seasonal passes to special events that will be held throughout the summer. (photo right). The cafe is open for business, too, offering good breakfast, lunch and dinner items. You can dine on the front porch overlooking Bayview Walk or have dinner under the big top on the ocean. In just a few years, Jacque, Donna & David have turned Cherry's into one of the Grove's busiest nightspots offering cabaret shows with popular drag queens, go-go boys, singers and bingo games. It also does a huge disco business on weekends. I've been told that the hugely popular Sweetie will host(ess) the Underwear Party on Friday nights. Woof!

Upper left: Your friendly Cherry Grove Market; Upper right: Brett Roper at Floyd's

Open every day, too, is the Cherry Grove Market (photo upper left). I suspect that it costs these guys money to open every day this early, but their community goodwill is appreciated. The store is chockfull of foodstuffs: delicious sandwiches, sandwich meat by the pound, fresh meat provided by The Fire Island Pines Meat Market, fresh vegetables and fruit, gourmet ingredients to make your favorite recipes at home, pasta, canned goods, ice cream, cakes, cookies, candy, bagels, soda, juices, beer, newspapers, small hardware items, cigarettes and (last but not least) an ATM to replenish your cash.

Floyd's is the place to schmooze -- breakfast and lunch only -- offering great freshly baked (on premises) muffins, breads, imaginative omelets, bacon, sausage, French toast, wraps, sandwiches, great burgers, creative salads and so much more. Fun open aire dining. A Cherry Grove institution. Good food, nice people!

Upper left: Ass Kickin' Grove Pizza; Upper right: Ice Cream-plus.

We've already deemed the pizza at Cherry Grove Pizza "the best kickass pizza" in the USA. But there is also superior Italian dishes here at very affordable prices. Friendly service, inside or outdoor dining. Open 11 am 'til . . .  (Photo upper left)

Frank Ice Cream Parlor. Grove Pizza owner Frank has wanted to open an old fashioned ice cream parlor for quite a while now. It looks like it will finally happen in the yellow building in front of the Grove Hotel on Bayview Walk. (Photo upper right.)

Upper left: Schmoozing patrons at Jumping Jacks; Upper right: Fantasy at Rainbow and Dreams

Jumping Jacks is the only oceanfront restaurant in Cherry Grove. The structure goes back to the 1950s and has a true flavor of our historic past, complete with inside and outside dining, wood-burning fireplace and a great ocean view. It's open for lunch and dinner and serves mostly seafood specialties like New England clam chowder, fried clams and oysters, raw bar, fish and chips, lobster, and fried calamari. There are also satisfying chicken and meat dishes. Very popular at cocktail hour. Unique and fun. (Photo upper left.)

Rainbow and Dreams. Bet you can't walk into this fantasyland and not buy something. Funky clothes, beach wear, crazy hats, t-shirts, adult toys, poppers, puzzles, candy, cigarettes, novelty items and gifts. Fun, fun, fun! (Photo upper right.)

Upper left: The attractive, newly renovated Top of The Bay; Upper right: Sunsets on the Bay.

Top of the Bay Bistro -- As I mentioned above, Ron King has transformed the old Top of the Bay Building into an attractive structure that will house a second floor restaurant and three attractive shops on the ground floor. The restaurant, called Top of the Bay Bistro, will be open by Memorial Day. They should not have trouble renting the stores because they are very attractive and will get lots of passersby coming off the boats. Location, location, location!

Sunsets will also be open by the time this edition is published. Sunsets is a lively, sometimes raucous and sometimes bawdy bar that gets a very late night crowd of locals and visitors who dance and schmooze 'til 4 am. Entertainment, Go-Go boys, Wednesday Evening Chinese Buffet,  Outside Garden, DJ and more.

Upper photo left: Newly renovated rooms overlook the Grove Hotel's massive swimming pool; Upper photo right: l. to r. Wendy, Petra and manager John are on duty, ready to take your calls.

Under new ownership, The Grove Hotel is actually a complex that includes Dune Point (another hotel); The Ice Palace, that offers varied entertainment by popular personalities like Ariel Sinclair, the phenomenal Porsche, guest artists, special event and theme parties, weekend disco, hosts The Annual Miss Fire Island Contest, The Mr. Fire Island Leather contest and lots more. For more information, visit The Grove Hotel website: www.CherryGroveFi.com.

Tides Entertainment Complex -- The "entertainment complex" part is my own because that's exactly how I've always seen this historic building. In its heyday, under ownership of Joe Scialo, it was the Fire Island branch of the famous Monster Bar, still located on Sheridan Square in New York City. The excellent restaurant, disco and cozy bar brought people to Cherry Grove from every Fire Island and mainland community.

Under new ownership it went downhill and stood empty for several years, until new investors made an attempt to revive the building's former glory. Under the name Bay Leaf, the building was handsomely transformed into a very good restaurant. Upstairs housed a very sophisticated cabaret room and The Island Repertory Theatre Company performed play in a dinner/theatre format.

After two years, the building was severely damaged by arson and again stood empty for several more years until Ron King bought the place and restored both the upstairs open air bar under the big top and the cabaret room that featured popular entertainer Sweetie, guest performers and hosted the first Fire Island Underwear Party. On the first floor, the cozy bar was back in business and a forty-seat black box professional theatre called The Tides Playhouse was installed in the rear of the building that housed two theatre companies Voyager and Island Rep.

Two years later, new owners installed a restaurant in the downstairs front and the rest of the complex was leased to longtime Grove entrepreneurs Lois & Meryl, who kept the operation as it was: upstairs bar, cabaret room, downstairs Cozy Bar and Island Rep productions in the theatre.

Last Fall, the building was sold to Uncle Frank (photo left), whose This 'n That business had occupied space in the Jumping Jack's building for many years. Here's the new lineup:

Uncle Frank will install his This 'n That in the the ground floor front. This amazing Pop and Pop store has always reminded me of a small-town variety, notions and sundries store because it carries hardware, clothing, house wares, small appliances, tools, swimwear and everything else under the sun. If you need something that you're convinced you won't find anywhere on the Island, see Uncle Frank. Ten-to-one he'll have it.

The upstairs cabaret room will operate as in the past under the management of John (Angora), a former manager of Jumping Jack's. The downstairs Cozy Piano Bar will be back, as will The Island Repertory Theatre Company. Tides will also be the new home of the GLBT Long Island Film Festival in September.

This 'n That is already open for business, both bars will be open by Memorial Day . . .  

And now for my favorite plug: After eight months in the planning The Island Repertory Theatre Company will open its ninth season on July 2nd at The Tides Playhouse with a very ambitious summer of entertainment that you can't afford to pass up. If you buy your tickets now, you will see three fabulous shows for a total price of $60 per season ticket. That averages out to only $20 per show!

 

Shows include:

 

July 2-13. Confessions of a Mormon Boy written and performed by Stephen Fales and directed by Tony Award winner Jack Hofsiss (Elephant Man, Shadow Box).

 

CONFESSIONS OF A MORMON BOY is Steven Fales’ compelling, humorous, and inspiring true story about how a young gay man went from being a model Mormon boy in Utah to a high priced call boy in New York City. Directed by Tony Award winning director Jack Hosfiss (Elephant Man, Shadow Box). (Photo left: Steven Fales in a scene from "Confessions of a Mormon Boy.")

A breakout hit during the 2004 New York International Fringe Festival -- for which the play received a coveted Overall Excellence Award -- CONFESSIONS OF A MORMON BOY also received a NY Outer Critics Circle Award Nomination for Outstanding Solo Performance. Steven Fales has been touring the show nationally and will come to Fire Island direct from the International Dublin Gay Theatre Festival. NOTE: This show will give Wednesday thru Monday performances.

 

August 1-17. Sordid Lives by Del Shores. A black comedy about white trash that will soon be an HBO TV Series. Both play and film version are gay cult classics. This production will feature members of Island Rep’s acclaimed acting ensemble under the direction of Richard LaFrance.

 

August 22-24. New Plays and Playwrights Series: A staged reading of a new play -- title to be announced. Free event for subscribers only.

 

The Rep box office will open May 31 in its new offices on the ground floor of The Top of the Bay Building. You can also charge your subscription tickets by phone at Island Rep's ChargIt Ticket Hotline 631 597-9439.

 

There are only forty seats available per performance and the good ones sell first. Don't be left out! Subscribe now!

 

What more can I say? If you enjoy ATGT's free website, I hope you'll make a tax-deductible contribution and/or subscribe to Island Rep's exciting new summer theatre season. See below for more details.

 

Garden Grove looks like an enchanted garden that was dropped on the spot where old Hunky Junky once stood. The beautiful landscaping is a pleasure and sight to behold. He has a good eye for beautiful plants, trees and cut flowers which he says a reasonable cost. He is also knowledgeable about maintenance of the things he sells.

 

The interior of Garden Grove also serves as a gift shop where you'll be certain to find the right gift for most any occasion.

 

People, Places and Things: On Tuesday a.m., downtown Cherry Grove was abuzz about "four guys from the UK" who mistakenly took the ferry to Ocean Beach and had to walk to the Grove, where they stayed at The Grove Hotel.

 

When I turned right on Bayview to pick up the mail at the post office, I saw four cute guys having breakfast at Floyd's and figured they must be the four tourists who got tongues to wagging. When I introduced myself, they were very friendly and told me that, yes, they had gotten on the wrong boat and walked to Cherry Grove from Ocean Beach (no mean feet at about four miles) and no, only one was from the UK (another from Australia and two from NYC). They seemed disappointed that there weren't more people around, but said that they were enjoying the laid back pace of Cherry Grove of early May. After spending one night at The Grove Hotel and another at The Belvedere, they left to go back to NYC, where, I guess, they all went their separate ways.  (Photo above left: l. to right: Gregory from San Francisco; Dale from Australia; Peter from London; and Thaddeus from New York. I love stories like this.

 

In an e-mail to ATGT, Dan Daly (photo right) e-mailed that he "will leave for Europe on May 22nd, and will be gone until August 16th. I am fortunate enough to be doing my Flashback Shows on Celebrity Cruise's Azamara Quest. Some of the Ports of call are The Greek Isles, Turkey, Bulgaria, The Ukraine, Egypt, Italy, South of France,  Barcelona, etc.

  "My two shows are called 'Flashback to the 1950's' and 'Flashback to the 1960's.' I will be working with a seven-piece orchestra in the main theater."

   Nice guy, very talented entertainer. Too bad we won't have him with us this season.

 

Saturday, May 17, will be Community Clean Up Day sponsored by The Cherry Grove Property Owners Association. Bring your garbage, yard debris and residential consumer stuff down to the dock between the hours of 9 am and 2 pm. Only five hours -- one day! (Excludes commercial contractor garbage and debris.)

 

OUT IN SAYVILLE 2008, now a weekend long celebration of diversity, friendship, fun, & pride, will be held Friday, May 30 - June 1, 2008. This year will be the 6th annual occurrence of this festival which attracts gay and straight individuals and families from all over Long Island to celebrate “America’s Friendliest Village,” Sayville, and its neighboring community of Cherry Grove, Fire Island. This years festivities will include a Friday Night Kickoff Party, The newly revamped Out In Sayville Music & Arts Festival, Silent Auction from the generous donations of the Sayville Chamber of Commerce in Cherry Grove to benefit local HIV/AIDS organization, Thursday's Child, A Themed Saturday Night Dance Party at Cherry's, Lube Wrestling at the World Famous Ice Palace. All this and more will be put on for your enjoyment .

IN MEMORIUM: Several people have asked us to list the number of Grove people who died this past  year: Bill Schulherr and Dan Lanning. They are the only ones I know about.

 

The only information that I have on longtime Grove resident Bill Bula is that he was the partner of Sherwood, who bartended at The Monster and Top of the Bay.

 

Dan Lanning was a popular cabaret entertainer who played piano at bars in New York and Cherry Grove.

 

After I ceased publication in August, 2007, Bill Schulherr sent ATGT a death notice for Bernard Muphy, who spent many summer in the Grove. I do remember him as a very nice guy. I'm glad that I kept it and can publish it now:

 

MURPHY, BERNARD (photo left) died May 16th, 2007, of lung cancer in Manhattan.  He was 67.  A consummate New Yorker, Mr. Murphy was an artist and avid collector of New York City books and memorabilia, many of them extremely rare.  He came to New York City 50 years ago, and spent many of those summer years in Cherry Grove.  Their home was on Aeon Walk.  He is survived by his loving partner of 38 years, Terry Lilly.

 

AUDITIONS FOR "SORDID LIVES" will take place at The Tides Playhouse, Ocean Walk in Cherry Grove on Saturday, May 17. There is a cast of twelve men and women in their forties and fifties. Texas accents are a plus. Weekend rehearsals begin May 31. Performances: the first three weekends in August. 
 

If you've you'd like your event mentioned here on ATGT, just e-mail info to AsTheGroveTurnds@aol.com and you'll no doubt see it in our next edition.

As The Grove Turns was founded on May 15, 2000. So far, we have received over a million visits to our site from over fifty countries. Next edition of As The Grove Turns: May 28, 2008. 'Til then, God bless.

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"Because a great community deserves great theatre."

THE ISLAND REPERTORY THEATRE COMPANY

Richard LaFrance, Artistic Director

Adminstrative Directors: Lorie Bradshaw and Wendy Lewis

E-mail: IslandRepCG@aol.com  Website:pan: http://www.islandrepcg.org/

ISLAND REP'S 2008 SUMMER THEATRE SEASON WILL BE THE BEST EVER!

THREE GREAT SHOWS FOR THE PRICE OF TWO

 SUBSCRIBE EARLY AND GET THE BEST SEATS FOR THREE EVENTS YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS! FRONT ROWS GO FIRST!

 OPENS JULY 2       OPENS AUGUST 1

July 2-13

CONFESSIONS OF A MORMON BOY

 written and performed by STEPHEN FALES

directed by JACK HOFSISS

Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays at 8;  Wednesdays, Sundays and Mondays at 7

August 1-3, 8-10, 15-17

SORDID LIVES

a black comedy about white trash

written by DEL SHORES

directed by RICHARD LaFRANCE

Fridays and Saturdays at 8; Sundays and Mondays at 7

August 22-24

NEW PLAYS AND PLAYWRIGHTS SERIES: Staged Reading of an exciting new work
To Be Announced*

Fridays and Saturdays at 8; Sundays at 7
*Free Event — Subscribers Only.

Subscribers will be invited to a staged reading of an exciting new play and participate in a discussion with the director and actors after the show.

 For more information visit http://www.islandrep.org/

THREE EVENTS FOR A TOTAL OF $60!SINGLE TICKETS: $30

SUBSCRIBE NOW!

 Buy your reserved seat subscriptions early and get the best seats available for the show dates of your choice. Three-event subscriptions cost a total of sixty dollars each.

Tickets: Call Island Rep Credit Card Hotline: 631 597-9439 or

Make your check payable to The Island Repertory Theatre Company, and mail to:

The Island Repertory Theatre Company,

c/o Richard LaFrance

P.O. Box 4039

Cherry Grove, N.Y. 11782-0998

(Mark checks "2007 Subs")

Make sure to tell us what dates you want to see the shows and include your return address, telephone number and e-mail address.  

 

 

TO OUR READERS:

BE AN ANGEL!

Dear Friends:

For all the hours of free informative fun you spend reading our webzine, we hope you'll consider making your 2008 tax-deductible donation to The Island Repertory Theatre Company, our sister organization that is asking for your assistance in helping raise the money to produce their ninth fabulous season of presenting gay-themed comedies and dramas that chronicle the GLBT experience at The Tides Playhouse in Cherry Grove.

Please add your name to the following list of contributors:

ANGELS ARE ALIVE AND WELL!

The following people have made tax-deductible contributions to The Island Repertory Theatre Company in 2008 in the following categories. Please contribute what you can afford.

Founder $1,000+:

Richard Fenn

Richard LaFrance

Producer $500*:

Tony Finstrom & Jack Dezak Ron King & Justin Jones

Director $250+:

Jan Felshin & Edrie Ferdun Michael Kobos & Donald Egan
Walter B. Quetsch Charles Whipple

Dr. Anna Tirado & Ms. Henriette Von Woerkom

Patron $100+

Edwin & Neil Juan Punchin
Anonymous Jeffrey Zirpolo
Karen Durka Steven Tepper
Anonymous  
John P. Hughes The House of Mae Bush
Tom Holden Roy and Barbara Flood
Bill Ottignon Virginia McInerney
Dan Nafziger John Philip
Rita & Jack Lichtenstein Bill Todt & Tony Tholtsiniathis 
Jim Kapsalis The Cubby Hole (Fort Lauderdale)
Paul E. Elsener Ralph M. Hays & Harold Fried

Supporter $50+:

Mark Donatelli Anonymous
David J. Garfinkel Al Wolff
Lorenzo F. Pugliese Harold Seeley
Thomas McKenna Robert Michel
Ken Fabbrini Carl & Linda Eisenberg
Al Wolff James Keys
William Marino Anonymous
Tom Cunningham JKTWO LLC
Richard Daddario Gay Nathan and Julie Paradise
Edward Mallon Dan Daly
Jim Kelly  

*Let us know if you prefer that your name not be listed as a contributor.

For your convenience, you can charge your tax-deductible donation in increments of $100 at PAYPAL or send a check payable to The Island Repertory Theatre Company in any amount you can afford to:

Richard Fenn, Treasurer,

Island Rep,

150 East 69th Street, #20M,

New York, NY 10021.

Island Rep is a 501(c)(3) not-for-profit organization. Be sure to mark your check “tax deductible contribution.” 

You can also charge your donation to a major credit card by calling us at: 631 597-9439.

Unless you advise us otherwise, your name will be added to the list of 2008 donors that is published in every edition of ATGT as well as on the Rep website.

Does your place of employment have a matching-grant program? Donations made in this manner are also completely tax-deductible.

Our 2008 Fundraising Goal is $18,000. Please Help!

"A Fire Island Gem" – Dan Evans, F.I Tide

"The Miracle of Legitimate Theatre" – Jeanne Lieberman, Fire Island Sun

 

For further information, visit our website: http://www.islandrep.org/ 


Thank you,
Richard LaFrance, Artistic Director
The Island Repertory Theatre Company

OUR MISSION: The Island Repertory Theatre Company is a Cherry Grove-based not-for-profit 501(c(3) arts organization dedicated to promoting cultural exchange, social interaction and goodwill between Fire Island communities by presenting time-honored and new plays that chronicle the GLBT experience.

Board of Directors: Richard Fenn, President; Lorie Bradshaw, George Cabell; Peter Downes, Pierre Galarneau, Alan Hassell, Justin Jones, Ron King, Richard LaFrance, Frank Santoro, Wendy Lewis, Nicole Pressly-Wolf, Bill Todt.

 

SUPPORT THE ARTS IN CHERRY GROVE!

All Donations Are Tax-Deductible!

 

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THE CHERRY GROVE ART WALK -- 2008

Dear Cherry Grove Community,
I am pleased to announce
The Cherry Grove Art Walk -2008 which will be held on the first weekend of September as it has been held now for three years.

Everyone is encouraged to participate in this event: owners of : bars, restaurants, houses, decks, poets, artists, dancers etc. You must be a visitor or homeowner to participate as an artist and arrange your own exhibit in a house or on a deck.

Send me a note of interest along with the title of your event or exhibit and a logo if you are a business in jpeg format (high res) with $200.00 check or money order made out to Barbara Ann Levy 600 S. Dixie Highway Apt 717 West Palm Beach, FL 33401 so that I can begin the process of getting the pr materials and walk materials made up. The accounting for this event will be transparent and a ledger with how the $ have been spent will be forthcoming.

I need major sponsors for this event: liquor companies etc. Please put the word out.

See The Palm Beach Post for a business model of what this event can become: 
http://www.palmbeachpost.com/events/content/entertainment/events/guides/sunfest

The Deputy Director of The Brooklyn Museum, Albert Schweitzer, artist  and one house owner have committed to this event so far.  Please join them. I am asking
all businesses to donate $200.00 to participate to cover the costs of the event.

You can drop me an e-mail with any questions: WestPalmBeach08@aol.com or become a 'friend' on Facebook and join
The Cherry Grove Art Walk -08 group.

Thanks in advance.  I miss Cherry Grove and look forward to putting this together this year!

Barbara Ann Levy

NICE LADY

Richard I can not tell you how much I appreciate your ATGT newsletter. I look so forward to it. Thanks for coming back. I hope all is doing well with Richard and your self. Winter was an easy one here in New York.

 
hugs,
Barbara C.

BLEEDIN' WHO?

That's TERRIF, Richard! I'm glad you took a break and rethought about the bleedin' bullies! Can't wait to see you.
 
Elaine

SLIPPIN' WITH MIKE

Hi !
NEW LOOK and New features. You can check online to see what slips are available updated daily. 2007 was a great season. Of course, we ate too much and drank too much, but that is what Cherry Grove is all about. Good friends Good food and Good times! Check out the website: http://www.cherrygrovemarina.com 

JIM AND DAN'S EXCELLENT ANNIVERSARY ADVENTURE IN SPAIN CONTINUES

May 5, 2008

Dear friends,

We continue to enjoy our first 25th anniversary gift to each other - our trip to Spain. Read Dan's impressions after our visit to the Prado Museum in Madrid:

Our visit to the Prado included some revelations, even though we've been to that great museum several times. First of all there were the new additions by Moneo, including a tall tower which preserved an early Renaissance cloister. On the ground floor, another room, with brightly painted red walls and a skylight ceiling, showed off a collection of ancient Roman sculpture to best effect."

Read more at :

http://hardtoport.blogspot.com

Jim Kelly, TCA 99-49842

(Editor: Dan and Jim were the big winner in the recent P.A.W.S RAFFLE.)

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CHERRY GROVE:

A PICTORIAL ESSAY

Photographs by Robert Conlon

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HUNK OF THE WEEK

Carl

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The Monster website

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Fire Island Follies

 

 

 

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Sex and the Island

by LLOYD FIDER

In Search of the Truth

May 14, 2008 -- Growing up, there were two sayings that I have always heard regarding the TRUTH – that the truth hurts, and that the truth shall set you free. And in many ways, these sayings are true. I remember when I finished elementary school in the Philippines , I was rejected by a prestigious science high school because I didn’t do very well on the entrance exams. That was a bummer for me because not only was that school prestigious, it also provided monetary stipends to its students. I was upset for a while but got over it. But that “truth” led me to the high school where I attended, and had the best years of my life. There wasn’t a lot of pressure compared to what I could have experienced in the other high school. I met great friends, was active in the community, and did very well in my studies.

But when it comes to matters of dating and relationships, how painful is the truth, and does it really set someone free?

Earlier this year, a guy I was dating for four months ended things with me. He reasoned that he was not ready for anything serious, and he thought that it was best and fair for me that we do not continue dating. But he pointed out that I am a wonderful person and that he enjoyed hanging out with me. What’s worse, he started seeing someone else. Now, anyone who has been dumped before knows that hearing someone break it off with you is quite hard, and even painful, even when they end their statements with a compliment on how wonderful and nice you are as a person. And in my case, it was upsetting, especially because I invested a lot in those four months, and now he is with someone else. In spite of that, we ended on a good note, and left the possibility of talking and hanging out again in the future.

After a month, I decided that I was emotionally ready to continue chatting with him. We would chat occasionally online and even talked about meeting up again for a drink and try to be friends. I was perfectly fine with that, and so was he, even though I know he was seeing someone.

Last Monday, I asked him what he did for Easter, and he said he had lunch with the guy he was seeing. I inquired how the relationship was going, and he said it was going well. I asked if their relationship was similar to what he and I had, or was it more serious. He admitted that it was on a more serious level. This admission took me by surprise as he made it clear to me before that he wasn’t ready for anything serious. Which led me to question – so if that is the case, then maybe it’s not about being not ready for anything serious, but it was more about me? He repeated what he told me before that it was not about me. But when I pressed on, he said he needed to go and that we will talk later. He even sent me a kissy face on instant messenger before he signed off. He came online that night, and I told him that I need to know the truth to give me a sense of closure. He said we will discuss this soon.

Needless to say, I was upset that night and started to question myself. I thought I have moved on, but clearly I haven’t. I feel that I need to know the truth, even though I know it will hurt, for me to move on. I also started to question if I should even remain friends with him – if I could handle it knowing he is with someone else.

I had a long conversation with my friends Anu and Bobby about this. It was clear from my voice that I was a wreck that night, and they understood what I was going through. Both of them agreed that I need to move on from this. Both of them also agreed that I don’t need to know the whole truth to move on. What’s done is done, and the guy has certainly moved on from me. Bobby even went further by saying that he doesn’t think the guy would tell me what he truly feels about what happened between him and I and why he ended it with me. And even if he did, who knows if he will be telling the truth and not just sugar coat his statements so as not to hurt me even further.

For me, I’d rather get hurt by knowing the truth than be left hanging and continue questioning and analyzing what happened. The question now becomes, is it worth my time and energy? The answer seems clear to many of my friends – a big fat NO. As my best friend would continue reminding me, I have to set my priorities straight and re-shift my focus on what really matters now – my work and education. I need to focus less on dating and focus more on doing a good job and pursuing other things that I like to do. And by doing these things, and also having a great support system, I should be able to move on with my life, stop worrying about the past, and close that chapter in my dating life. And that is the truth that shall set me free.

For me, is it easier said than done? Absolutely! But I know that with a renewed energy and focus on what truly matters right now in my life, and the support of my friends and family (and maybe even some professional help), that I’ll be just fine. And when the right time and place in my life comes, then who knows, Mr. Right could just come in when I least expect it. For now, I should just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride.

About the author: Lloyd is 25 years old and has a BA degree in Psychology from Stony Brook University. He is currently pursuing his Masters degree in Social Work at Fordham University. He currently works for a printing/graphics design company as a production coordinator. He loves volleyball, badminton, bowling, movies, books, writing, biking, hiking, the beach, and hanging out with his friends. He is currently single. He currently resides in Jackson Heights, Queens, NY. Prior to that, he lived in Huntington, Long Island for 6 years.

For comments or questions, please email him at thatslife1982@yahoo.com

 

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OBAMA TALKS ALL THINGS GLBT WITH THE ADVOCATE

By Kerry Eleveld, An Advocate.com exclusive posted April 10, 2008

 

In an exclusive Chicago sit-down with The Advocate's Kerry Eleveld, Democratic front-runner Barack Obama discusses "don't ask, don't tell," the Reverend Wright, and what he would do for LGBT Americans if he becomes president.

Democratic presidential front-runner Barack Obama has been weathering a small storm lately in the LGBT community for being too tight-lipped with gay and lesbian news media.

Unlike his rival Hillary Clinton, who's given interviews to Logo and several local papers since appearing on the cover of The Advocate last fall, the Illinois senator has talked only once, to The Advocate, to address the Donnie McClurkin controversy. But last week his campaign offered our magazine an exclusive sit-down in Chicago with the man who may well become the next president of the United States.

To some extent, it symbolizes the brilliance of a protracted primary contest where candidates continually pivot and adjust in order to engage ever more voters. Had the race stopped cold in the snows of New Hampshire, gays and lesbians would have been left with one interview of record for each Democratic candidate in total.

But in a wide-ranging interview this Monday, Obama discussed "don't ask, don't tell," the Reverend Wright, and why LGBT folks should lead on marriage equality, not politicians. Some may call the chat a shrewd political move by the Obama camp ahead of the April 22 Pennsylvania primary. We call it access. 

The Advocate: Let’s start with what’s hot -- why the silence on gay issues? You’ve done only one other interview with the LGBT press. I know people wish they were hearing more from you.

Senator Obama: I don’t think it’s fair to say "silence" on gay issues. The gay press may feel like I’m not giving them enough love. But basically, all press feels that way at all times. Obviously, when you’ve got a limited amount of time, you’ve got so many outlets. We tend not to do a whole bunch of specialized press. We try to do general press for a general readership.

But I haven’t been silent on gay issues. What’s happened is, I speak oftentimes to gay issues to a public general audience. When I spoke at Ebenezer Church for King Day, I talked about the need to get over the homophobia in the African-American community; when I deliver my stump speeches routinely I talk about the way that antigay sentiment is used to divide the country and distract us from issues that we need to be working on, and I include gay constituencies as people that should be treated with full honor and respect as part of the American family. 

So I actually have been much more vocal on gay issues to general audiences than any other presidential candidate probably in history. What I probably haven’t done as much as the press would like is to put out as many specialized interviews. But that has more to do with our focus on general press than it does on… I promise you, the African-American press says the same thing.

And Spanish-language?

And Spanish-language [outlets] had the same gripe. Just generally, we have generally tried to speak to broader audiences. That’s all that is. 

I think the underlying fear of the gay community is that if you get into office, will LGBT folks be last on the priority list?

I guess my point would be that the fact that I’m raising issues accordant to the LGBT community in a general audience rather than just treating you like a special interest that is sort of off in its own little box -- that, I think, is more indicative of my commitment. Because ultimately what that shows is that I’m not afraid to advocate on your behalf outside of church, so to speak. It’s easy to preach to the choir; what I think is harder is to speak to a broader audience about why these issues are important to all Americans. 

If you were elected, what do you plan to do for the LGBT community -- what can you reasonably get done?

I reasonably can see “don’t ask, don’t tell” eliminated. I think that I can help usher through an Employment Non-Discrimination Act and sign it into law.

You think it’s transgender-inclusive?

I think that’s going to be tough, and I’ve said this before. I have been clear about my interest in including gender identity in legislation, but I’ve also been honest with the groups that I’ve met with that it is a heavy lift through Congress. We’ve got some Democrats who are willing to vote for a noninclusive bill, but we lose them on an inclusive bill, and we just may not be able to generate the votes. I don’t know. And obviously, my goal would be to get the strongest possible bill -- that’s what I’ll be working for. 

The third thing I believe I can get done is in dealing with federal employees, making sure that their benefits, that their ability to transfer health or pension benefits the same way that opposite-sex couples do, is something that I’m interested in making happen and I think can be done with some opposition, some turbulence, but I think we can get that done.

And finally, an area that I’m very interested in is making sure that federal benefits are available to same-sex couples who have a civil union. I think as more states sign civil union bills into law the federal government should be helping to usher in a time when there’s full equality in terms of what that means for federal benefits.

I assume you’re talking about the Defense of Marriage Act.

Absolutely, and I for a very long time have been interested in repeal of DOMA.

Do you think it’s possible to get full repeal of DOMA? As you know, Senator Clinton is only looking at repealing the plank of DOMA that prohibits the federal government from recognizing state-sanctioned unions. 

I don’t know. But my commitment is to try to make sure that we are moving in the direction of full equality, and I think the federal government historically has led on civil rights -- I’d like to see us lead here too.

Back to “don’t ask, don’t tell” real quick -- you’ve said before you don’t think that’s a heavy lift. Of course, it would be if you had Joint Chiefs who were against repeal. Is that something you’ll look at?

I would never make this a litmus test for the Joint Chiefs of Staff. Obviously, there are so many issues that a member of the Joint Chiefs has to deal with, and my paramount obligation is to get the best possible people to keep America safe. But I think there’s increasing recognition within the Armed Forces that this is a counterproductive strategy -- ya know, we’re spending large sums of money to kick highly qualified gays or lesbians out of our military, some of whom possess specialties like Arab-language capabilities that we desperately need. That doesn’t make us more safe, and what I want are members of the Joint Chiefs of Staff who are making decisions based on what strengthens our military and what is going to make us safer, not ideology. 

Both you and your wife speak eloquently about being told to wait your turn and how if you had done that, you might not have gone to law school or run for Senate or even president. To some extent, isn’t that what you’re asking same-sex couples to do by favoring civil unions over marriage -- to wait their turn?

I don’t ask them that. Anybody who’s been at an LGBT event with me can testify that my message is very explicit -- I don’t think that the gay and lesbian community, the LGBT community, should take its cues from me or some political leader in terms of what they think is right for them. It’s not my place to tell the LGBT community, "Wait your turn." I’m very mindful of Dr. King’s “Letter From Birmingham Jail,” where he says to the white clergy, "Don’t tell me to wait for my freedom."

So I strongly respect the right of same-sex couples to insist that even if we got complete equality in benefits, it still wouldn’t be equal because there’s a stigma associated with not having the same word, marriage, assigned to it. I understand that, but my perspective is also shaped by the broader political and historical context in which I’m operating. And I’ve said this before -- I’m the product of a mixed marriage that would have been illegal in 12 states when I was born. That doesn’t mean that had I been an adviser to Dr. King back then, I would have told him to lead with repealing an antimiscegenation law, because it just might not have been the best strategy in terms of moving broader equality forward.

That’s a decision that the LGBT community has to make. That’s not a decision for me to make.

Is it fair for the LGBT community to ask for leadership? In 1963, President Kennedy made civil rights a moral issue for the country. 

But he didn’t overturn antimiscegenation. Right?

True enough.

As I said, I think the LGBT community has every right to push for what it thinks is right. And I think that it’s absolutely fair to ask me for leadership, and my argument would be that I’m ahead of the curve on these issues compared to 99% of most elected officials around the country on this issue. So I think I’ve shown leadership.

What event or person has most affected your perceptions of or relationship to the LGBT community?

Well, it starts with my mom, who just always instilled in me a belief that everybody’s of equal worth and a strong sense of empathy -- that you try to see people through their eyes, stand in their shoes. So I think that applies to how I see all people. 

Somebody else who influenced me, I actually had a professor at Occidental -- now, this is embarrassing because I might screw up his last name -- Lawrence Goldyn, I think it was. He was a wonderful guy. He was the first openly gay professor that I had ever come in contact with, or openly gay person of authority that I had come in contact with. And he was just a terrific guy. He wasn’t proselytizing all the time, but just his comfort in his own skin and the friendship we developed helped to educate me on a number of these issues. 

Did you have a chance to ask him about being gay?

I’m sure we did, but as I said, he was really comfortable in his own skin, and the relationship was a strong friendship and I never felt as if I had to get over any mental hurdles to be close to him or to learn from him. He’s probably somebody who had a strong influence.

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